CH.79 TAO TE CHING
Failure is an opportunity.
If you blame someone else,
there is no end to the blame.

Therefore the Master
fulfills her own obligations
and corrects her own mistakes.
She does what she needs to do
and demands nothing of others.


i agree 100%

you know. simple as it all sounds. when it comes to things in a negative light. the phrase, "will it matter in 10 years?" sits heavy with me in a good way.
if something trivial and dumb comes up and angers you but you wont care about it in a week or for that matter 10 years why give a flying fuck?
if it does...then i guess you should try solving that shit then.